Tuesday, June 11, 2013

The Bare Minimum: My Traveling Suitcase

I have been in Arequipa for approximately six days without my luggage. That's right! I have been utilizing the minimal clothes that I had in my book bag and my checked on duffle bag. My luggage decided to go to Texas without me and is now currently in Lima, Peru. At one point I thought she, my luggage, decided to travel the world without me. If you are keeping up with my Facebook page "Morena in the City", my missing luggage will explain why it seems like I am wearing the same round of clothes or why my days seem much longer than they are..



I was very proud of myself because the old Gerina would have been stressed and pissed about not having 90% of my things, however I am learning that things are just things and that I can function (quite well actually)  and be content with what I have. Thank you Holy Spirit for preparing me for this experience. The level of humility and good naturedness that I have exerted is surprising to me and that is when I know the peaceful spirit from the God head is in me. My fellow intern, Lisette, has allowed me to borrow sleeping clothes, as well as a shirt to add to the two polos that I have. Larissa Smith, one of the other missionaries, gave me the hygiene products that I did not have recently, but prior to that I was doing quite well anyway.

Yesterday and today I began to get a bit antsy but not longer than 5 min at a time and then I am so engaged with what is going on around me and the people that I forget all over again. It makes me think about how disgustingly obsessed Americans and some other cultures can be about "stuff". There is so much more to life.
I am living and understanding the scripture that states (and I paraphrase loosely), "Do not worry about what you will eat, or wear because the birds and flowers are taken care of daily, so why would we expect God our Father to treat us any differently?

I am grateful for the what I do have and the kindness of those that have been bestowed to me. Such as Kyle Smith, Larissa's husband, that has been my advocate with the airlines since I am unable to speak Spanish.

Hopefully, my luggage will decide to make a fashionably late appearance in Arequipa  within the next 2-3 days.

Tuesday: Cultural Class and My Reflections

Cultural class is the one class the interns have collectively and Greg McKenzie is our teacher. Today we had an introduction to Cultural Intelligence. Cultural Intelligence is the capability to be effective across a variety of cultural contexts (e.g. national, ethnic, organizational, generational, etc.).

When interacting with people for m another culture the way we may usually interact will most likely be read differently in another culture, and the most, I repeat the MOST ignorant thing a person can say or think is that this culture you are "imposing" on should adapt to you. Cultural Intelligence is mucho importante when doing mission work in another culture because you want to be very effective and to be effective you need to not only learn about the culture, but live in the culture, and acculturate to the cultures ways of thinking and interacting. It is also important to know when to adapt and when not to adapt. This is important especially, when it comes to Christian culture according to Christ (not to be confused with traditions of man imposed into the Christian culture, some of you know what I mean). 

As Greg shared in class (I will  paraphrase and integrate my reflection as well), Jesus came into this world as an infant (a very very humble state and a very strong statement God made in that fact alone). As an infant, Christ had to be dependent on others for his well being and was raised in a particular culture by parents that were a part of that culture. Jesus the Christ, was a Jewish man and a divine entity of the Godhead. being raised as Jewish, it allowed for Jesus to be more effective when sharing the will of his Father and bringing truth and fulfillment to the law.  Jesus had an understanding of the culture (communication styles, gestures, social ranks, etc) and because of this he was able to maneuver in the culture in particular ways. When it came to traditions that balked against his Fathers will that is when Jesus made the very clear decision to not only adapt but to almost...dare I say it...REBEL? 

At the end of class we took a personal profile that generally analyzed our basic models and what motivates us. There are six areas that the profile touched on and in class we touched on two: Time Orientation in relation to being Event Oriented and Task Oriented in relation to being Person Oriented. Kayla and Greg were traditionally more American in these two areas as they were more task and time oriented. Lisette, Parker and I were on the event and people oriented side of the grid. My task and person score was closer  which means that I can be pulled either way, it depends on the task or the people that would cause me to lean a particular way.

Greg shared that a year or two years ago when the interns interviewed the Peruvians of Arequipa asking the 10 questions to determine what part of the grid they were on, that when in the area of time and event they were usually in tension with one another, because for school and work they were on time, however for family events and church they are stereotypically late (there are those few people that will be on time to everything due to their personal values). So when they are late for church is it because they do not think it is as important as work? No, but it is because they view going to events that consist of the body of Christ as family events, therefore they are late but will stay until the very end.

Some preguntas (questions) that Greg mentioned for us to think about and we will re-visit in subsequent classes are the following:

How do we "do" church? How do we view church?

Is it an institutional/business model (Time, quantity valued)?  Or is it a Family Oriented model (event and quality valued?)

I am aware that some Christians that are avid church goers would most likely state,  "Of course we are a family! The church is the body of Christ! We are brothers and sisters through the blood of Christ!" My response to these people is, "Yes, you are correct because that is what the Bible communicates to us, however if we sincerely and humbly look at the way the church is "run" (eek that phrasing), how we communicate the model of the church (verbally and non-verbally), we may see that we send mixed messages. 

We say that we are a family but we act as if church is an institution. Now don't get me wrong my fellow CoC'ers and other Christian groups, I believe in order and healthy boundaries, because healthy functional families has healthy rules and boundaries, however those families still feel like a family. So what is the difference?

Some of you may think that I am being brain-washed but please understand I have felt this way for a looooooooong time however with my education and my so far brief experience here in Arequipa I am equipped in a way that allows for me to better express myself with facts, studies and simple experience.

As I am writing this I am somewhat listening into a meeting concerning the academic aspect of CUDA. One thing that is important to understand is that with all of the initiatives that are under CUDA is that they do not come to CHANGE, they come to LEARN and see in what ways they can utilize their expertise, gifts and knowledge to IMPROVE and/or RECOMMEND ways that the business and school systems can be more effective for them. It is arrogant and ignorant to come into a place with the idea to "help those poor people", as soon as that thought crosses one's mind count the work done on that mission trip to be short lived (first order) or be met with a lot of resistance.  

Monday: Language Class, Interaction and Mystery Oh my!

Monday was our first day of  language classes. We each (Kayla, Parker and myself) have our own teachers, and my teacher's name is Abraham. Abraham is a very patient and caring teacher, his familiarity with English and his struggles with English may assist in his ability to be a patient and empathetic teacher. being here in Arequipa learning a new language and being in rooms with people that are speaking in a language I don't understand does not annoy me at all. I actually like when people talk around and to me in Spanish because I feel that is the best way to learn. The only thing that is a little frustrating is the inability of not being able to communicate back to them. I am people oriented and love meeting new people so you can imagine how I may feel when it is difficult for me to ask people questions about themselves. So I just sit there and smile as I stare into people's eyes as if I know what they are saying hoping that I can get a divine connection into their souls. LOL of the picture I just described makes me sound like I am being creepy. I am not. well...maybe I am.

The interns and Lucia after language class in the Cafe.

I did better than I thought and learned that I was able to translate things into English based on words similar to English and the context of the text I was reading.  I am very context oriented, I knew this before but I am really realizing that now. It is difficult to explain this is how I am when it ALL literally depends on the context. I will go more into detail about this in my next post about our cultural class we had Tuesday morning.

I do have an opportunity to do a therapy session with a woman and her daughter. Actually, the woman is Patti, the lady that works with the Micro financing loan initiative and that led the ladies devotional I described in a previous post. After language class with Abraham Patti came over and requested my services! I was so humbled and felt like crying for some reason. I am actually tearing up now as I type this part because...I don't know...I was sincerely humbled at such a request and I guess because the Lord is finding a way to use me in a way that I was not expecting.  The therapy session will be nontraditional because Abraham will serve as our translator. I expressed to Patti that I was concerned with their being so many people involved and she stated that we all can meet in a private location which told me that she was not concerned at all with being vulnerable with Abraham. I have yet to met her daughter. Well I will be prayed up and solicit the prayers of those reading this blog.

Later the interns and I had lunch at the McKenzie's house and it  was DELISH!!!! Any who, instead of eating in the living room with the interns and Mission mommy Megan, I attempted to converse with Manuela as we ate lunch in the kitchen. I attempted to communicate with her utilizing  the meager Spanish I have learned.  Manuela speaks nada English so the exchange between was filled with silence but I was able to share that I had older siblings on my fathers side and I was the only child of my mother and tell her where they live. She shared that she had two children and five grandchildren. It was a meaningful exchange even though much was not spoken but it was the fact that we both attempted to get to know one another despite the huge language barrier.

That evening we all assisted Lisette in making a Venezuelan dish called Arepas. Arepas consist of the following: cornmeal bread, that can be stuffed with scrambled eggs with diced tomatoes and onions, black beans infused with cilantro, and cheese, they were mucho mucho bueno. After eating and conversing with Greg that returned that morning we watched two episodes of the Cosby show (yes the Cosby show) and once the children went to bed we watched the BBC's version of Sherlock Holmes which I fell in love with. The character of Sherlock Holmes in this miniseries is...let's just say I am intrigued by the working of his brain and the vastness of his intellect. It is confirmed I NEED an intellectual man that can stimulate my intellect without endeavoring to impress me but by just being himself. For now Sherlock Holmes will be my imaginative boo while I am here in Peru (oooo I rhymed).





Being a part of the body of Christ is not ONLY a Sunday event

One thing I am LOVING about being in Arequipa, Peru with the McKenzie and Smith team is that they live out their mission lives everyday. It is not set up to just pass out pamphlets and preach at people it is living among them, working with them, hanging out with them, doing business with them....basically, sharing their lives with the people that they are "targeting". Please excuse my use of the word "them" as if they are separate and a part from anyone else, because they are not. My use of "them" is my attempt to distinguish between the missionaries and the people of Arequipa.

Sunday Lisette went to church in the morning with Larissa at one of the members house that lives out in a community that's about 40 minutes away from here where they ate and fellowshipped. While Lisette was at church, we (Kayla and I) went to the market and grocery store with Megan and her children. At home, the children had Sunday school. I had my personal devotional. When Lisette returned home we (Lisette and I) took Anna to a Peruvian birthday party which was quite lovely. (For pictures and videos please refer to my Facebook page).

Returning from the party we got ready for church service at Megan's house. Usually, Greg is the one that leads the service however due to him being out of town and this being our first Sunday with the church (remember the church is the body, not the building) Megan had the members share their testimony's with us on how they came to Christ and we shared what brought us to Arequipa. I found it interesting that all the members that I have met so far has come in contact with Christ through relationships or through the business Team Arequipa has. The church continues to grow and it is also the members talking to their family members and bringing them around.

Some of the ladies used to be Catholic and shared that they did not learn a lot about Christ in Mass and not about having a personal relationship with Christ. They all shared that now they know more about Christ and feel that they have a personal relationship with him now than they have before and how he is a part of their everyday lives. Javier, the only male member of this congregation, besides Greg, came later and shared that he came to know Christ through CoC missionaries in Argentina. As he got older, he lost touch with the church because the ones he went to visit did not seem right (as in close knit, and an actual family). When he met the Arequipa team, he finally felt a part of a family that had the love of Christ. He especially, felt close and comfortable with Greg to share his struggles with.

Sunday was a lovely day!

Everyday is a Christ filled lovely day here in Arequipa...so far.... (giggles)

Saturday: The Grace of God

Saturday night was a ladies devotional as I stated in the previous blog and I enjoyed myself. Yes, it was ALL in Spanish, however I felt that I got 1/10 of what they were talking about and was able to contribute since Lisette volunteered as our translator for them and for us. A lady by the name of Patti was the leader of the bible devotional and the conversation was about what the grace of God is and if we deserve the grace of God.

As I observed these ladies I was impressed with the openness and the absence of pretense. These ladies have no qualms with sharing that they struggle with their flesh and from time to time has doubt but it is the grace of God that keeps them going.With the minimum amount of words that I picked up on (including the translation help of Lisette), the women seemed to have a better understanding of what the grace of God is compared to those in the states. Let me explain, it appears as if a lot of the people intellectually understands the grace of God, however it seems as if they are no longer convicted in their hearts about it, or the active grace that God bestows upon us has grown cold. These women seems as if they live it daily. therefore it seems as if they do not live it out daily, understanding not to sin again and again but when they fall it is easier to jump back up and continue this Christian race.
From left to right: (Gerina, Lisette, Megdalyn, and Kayla)


Initially, I thought the lack of pretense and conviction was due to most of these women being  new to the faith and that is why they are not so "churched trained" however I met Madelyn (the daughter of a preacher) and her faith is personal and strong, as well as Patti that has been a Christian for some years. As I sat there I felt the Holy Spirit in that place and felt that God was very pleased with what was taken place with the group of women. There was a spirit of trust, comfort, openness, willingness to learn and a sense of family among the women.

I guess due to the warmness of the environment it allowed a lady by the name of Martha to share her testimony with the group although she came late and was not a Christian. She learned about the devotional group from Patti, the devotional leader, through one of  CUDA's other initiatives, the Mirco Financing Loan. The Micro Financing loan program is a program that looks for entrepreneur borrowers and provides them with skills, tools and steps to improve their businesses along with about $300. Martha was one of the borrowers and through the relationship business Patti shared with her about the devotional group.

IT seems that the key to evangelism with Team Arequipa is building relationships. This reminds me of Kings Church of Christs mission statement when I was there which was something along the lines of building relationships with people, building people up and some other good stuff. (if you are a Kings's member and know what I am attempting to paraphrase please feel free to comment with the accurate statement).

On a lighter note, one aspect of the conversation that I got almost completely, without needing Lisette to translate, were the women talking about praying for a GOOD Christian man. (Chuckles) It seems like the Christian sisters here in Arequipa "struggles" with the same things that Christian sisters in the states struggle with and this is not even factoring if they are compatible.  I am guessing that this is an issue all over the world. Sigh.

Overall I appreciate the ladies group here in Arequipa and look forward to the other meetings to come.